God is the author of your love story, and he doesn’t write the same love story twice. Stop comparing your love story to Husband Wife matching hoodies. Stop comparing your love story to the photos you see on Instagram. Stop comparing your love story to your parents. Stop comparing your love story to Jeremy and I. Comparison will rob you of joy, thankfulness, peace, contentment, vision and uniqueness. It’s crippling. On top of that, social media has the power to make you constantly feel like your relationship is sub-par, unfulfilling, or even failing. We must realize that everyone has a chapter in their story that they don’t read out loud. Quit looking at other people’s relationships and comparing them to yours. Refuse to let Hollywood set the standards for how your husband matching should love you. Refrain from commenting on other couples photos about how perfect they are. Quit coveting a better version of your spouse. And don’t let yourself become bitter, disappointed, or resentful because your husband doesn’t treat you exactly like you witnessed some other husband treat their wife. Ruthlessly eliminate comparison from your thoughts, heart, and Marry me. You will experience the depths of joy if you choose to delight in what you have, rather than strive to obtain what you see. Your love story is beautiful, worthy, divine, intricate, unfolding, unique, and only yours.
Dear God, I pray for patience. I know I have not been very good at exercising patience lately and I see how it affects my relationship with my hoodies. I respond so harshly and abrupt toward him. I am irritated before we even interact with each other. Please help both of us to have patience in our hearts and throughout our home. I desire to be a woman who is known for her patience. Please let this fruit be abundant in my Queen Matching Couple and marriage in Jesus’ name AMEN!